Practicing Discernment in all we do…

As many of you know, I am a business/franchise/life coach/consultant/mentor/teacher/speaker..take your pick. It has always been my passion to help others through any means necessary, and it seems I have always attracted those in need, whether financially, physically, psychologically or spiritually. What I didn’t understand was that each time I did this, I was trying to help them, yet, at the same time, I was also empathing most, if not all, of the pain they were experiencing at the time. Each time I would help someone, I would actually get physical symptoms, or migraines, or depression….you name it.

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It seems that my true calling is to help and heal…I know this to be true. It has taken me several years of healing myself, and of learning to build a shield of protection from those in pain.

Also, I have becoming blatantly aware that when I practice discernment, I am at peace in my life. That’s because I am, at those times, surrounding myself with those who are like-minded, and align with positive my energy and intent.

HOWEVER, when I fail to practice discernment and I don’t listen to my intuition,  or I ignore that ‘pit’ in my stomach when I meet someone in business, or life in general.. it always turns out poorly.

For example, in the past, I have enabled friends. I have actually gone so far as to purchase a house, pay for vacations and basically try to buy an empty friendship by showering them with gifts. Yet, all along, I knew that this wasn’t the appropriate behavior for a friendship.. I am learning..

However, at times, I still wonder into situations, particularly in business, that become just too much for a highly sensitive person like myself. I most recently worked for a client who has taken advantage of every single person who works for him (now including myself). When I first met him, I ignored every feeling of discomfort, every ounce of concern, in favor of a solid position in a company that promised to ‘change the world’. Of course, I want to change the world!… Sign me up! .. who wouldn’t want to align with a visionary who wants nothing but the best for the ‘universe’? …..

One very long, extremely painful month later, (and one day to be a book), I am shaking my head, realizing that once again, I am being reminded to practice discernment. Someone should have a class for practicing discernment….hmmmmmm :)

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Nonetheless, I refuse to change who I am.. This is who I am. I am a helper, a healer, a consultant, a counselor. Yet, I need to constantly practice discernment in all I do. Easy? NO. My personal journey? DEFINITELY!!

Practice..practice..practice… :)

Peace and love. BREN

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